The word ‘Lingam’ is an ancient Sanskrit term for penis, and is literally translated as “wand of light.” This article will give you a deep and eye-opening understanding of tantric Lingam Massage. I’ll also introduce a number of tried-and-true Lingam Massage techniques so you can wow your partner into a state of soul-satisfying bliss.
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There are various styles and techniques you can use while giving a deep Lingam Massage. You don’t need to know all of them in order to be good at it. It’s more important to be present and tap into the needs of the receiver.
Stay in communication with the receiver throughout this penis massage. Ask for feedback: How does this feel? Is this good? Shall I continue like this? Harder? Softer? Slower? Faster?
Many receivers, after years and years of masturbation, may have developed an imprinted habit towards the standard thrusting technique. Meaning, they grip the penis hard and move with an up-and-down motion. Or, they might even have an addiction to the dangerous Death Grip. Lingam massage is about unraveling these ingrained mechanics in order to heighten sensitivity and expand energy.
Here are 5 strokes you can use to give a great Lingam Massage.
The first stroke is often the best stroke for the receiver, as he’s been building up to the moment when you first lay your hands on his Lingam. You can begin with the sensual, grounding stroke of Lingam Shiatsu to slowly awaken the penis.
Start from the root of the shaft.
Gently press the penis with your thumbs and index fingers, and then release. Move up about a centimeter and repeat the technique. Do this again until you’ve worked your way up the entire length of the receiver’s penis.
You can supercharge the pleasure your partner feels with this next move. Hold the sides of the Lingam with both of your hands and “ski” with your thumbs by alternating up and down from the root of the penis all the way to the tip. Experiment here with different speeds and amounts of pressure.
This stroke can provide the receiver with some interesting sensations. Surround the lingam with both hands and twist them in opposite directions. Keep a firm grip, but don’t squeeze too hard here.
Now, change up the tempo of the massage by slowing down and moving into a meditative moment. Circle the tip of your thumb and index finger in both directions around the frenulum of the penis, which is located just underneath the head.
Go slowly, move with purpose, and be present so you can watch the magic unfold.
Worship your lover by holding your hands with crossed fingers like you would in a gesture of prayer, and surround the penis between them. Then, you can open the thumbs and slide them along each side of the Lingam up and down at varying speeds.
Once you feel the receiver’s sexual energy flowing beautifully and harmoniously, move their energy upward by sliding from their sexual center up towards the heart, emphasizing your focus on your synchronized breath. Integrate this awakened energy there and let the receiver relax in bliss for at least 10–15 minutes.
I don’t recommend that you try to get the receiver to ejaculate, as this will cause them to expel the momentum and the energy you have built within them. However, it’s up to them whether they choose to ejaculate or not. Talk about this before the penis massage, keeping in mind that they may change their mind during the process.
Ejaculation isn’t problematic here, it’s just not the main goal.
Once you’ve finished, sit next to your partner in silence, meditate on consciousness together, and thank them for allowing you to worship them.
Now get out there and express your Lingam love!<>